Fertility & Motherhood Coaching
Others begin long before that.
Some journeys begin with a positive pregnancy test.
With waiting.
Treatment.
Disappointment.
Hope.
And the constant balancing act between them.
For many, becoming a mother brings its own questions.
Who am I now?
What has changed?
What do I need?
This coaching offers a steady place to land through fertility, pregnancy, and the becoming of motherhood.
Care that honours your whole story — not just this moment
Fertility treatment is rarely only about fertility.
Pregnancy after loss is rarely only about pregnancy.
And becoming a mother is about far more than caring for a baby.
There can be hope.
Fear.
Grief.
Relief.
Questions that don't always have answers.
And the sense that you're becoming someone new while still trying to understand who that is.
My role isn't to fix any of that.
It's to offer a steady place to bring it.
A space where uncertainty doesn't need to be solved before it can be spoken aloud.
A space where all parts of your experience are welcome.
Because support isn't about walking ahead of you.
It's about walking alongside you.
This is support that walks with you — not ahead of you.
Doula Support Packages
Fertility Support Package
Investment: €795
For IVF, ICSI, IUI & early pregnancy after fertility treatment
For those navigating the emotional experience of fertility treatment — including the waiting, the hyper-vigilance, and decision fatigue — and for early pregnancy that feels more cautious than celebratory.
Includes:
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Introductory consultation
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6 × 1-hour online coaching sessions
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1 × preparation session for procedures or milestones
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Ongoing messaging support between sessions
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Emotional regulation and grounding tools
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Support shaped around your treatment path
This package supports you through clinical pathways, uncertain outcomes, and the fragile transition from treatment to pregnancy, with steadiness and clarity.
Payment plans available
Flexible payment options are available to support accessibility and ease. Please ask during your discovery call.
Motherhood & Matrescence Coaching Package
Investment: €795
For women adjusting to the psychological and relational changes that come with becoming a mother — especially when it feels heavier, lonelier, or more overwhelming than you expected — or simply different to what you imagined.
Includes:
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6 × 1-hour coaching sessions
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Exploration of identity, overwhelm, values, and confidence
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Nervous-system supportive practices
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Communication and boundary support
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Tailored reflection exercises
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Between-session messaging support
This support creates space to process identity shifts, rebuild confidence, navigate partnership changes, and reconnect with yourself in the midst of caring for everyone else.
Payment plans available
Flexible instalment options can be discussed to support you in committing with confidence.
Combined Fertility → Motherhood Pathway
Investment: €1395
Support from conception through early motherhood
For those who want continuity — from fertility treatment or long conception journeys, through early pregnancy, and into the unfolding transition of matrescence.
Includes:
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12 × 1-hour sessions over several months
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Emotional support during fertility treatment
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Early pregnancy and post-birth integration support
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Identity-focused matrescence coaching
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Personalised reflection and grounding practices
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WhatsApp check-ins for reassurance through transitions
This pathway offers sustained, relational support across changing phases, so you are not starting over each time the chapter shifts.
What we might explore together
Emotional Regulation
Finding steadiness during waiting periods, treatment cycles, difficult news, and the emotional ups and downs that often accompany fertility and early pregnancy.
Clarity & Informed Decisions
Creating space to untangle options, prepare for appointments, and make decisions that feel aligned with your values rather than driven by fear or urgency.
Resilience in Uncertainty
Support through the waiting, the unanswered questions, and the parts of the journey that cannot be planned or controlled.
Identity & Matrescence
Exploring the shifts that can come with fertility, pregnancy, and becoming a mother — including who you are, what matters to you, and how life is changing.
Communication & Self-Trust
Helping you feel more confident asking questions, expressing needs, setting boundaries, and navigating conversations with healthcare providers and loved ones.
Who this Support is for
This support is for those carrying hope, uncertainty, grief, change, and big questions about what comes next.
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Fertility & IVF Journeys
For those navigating IVF, ICSI, or IUI — carrying the quiet weight of uncertainty, repeated cycles, complex decisions, and the emotional exhaustion that so often exists between appointments and results.
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Early Pregnancy After Infertility or Loss
For those in early pregnancy who are holding hope and fear at the same time — waiting for reassurance, struggling to trust their bodies, and moving gently after fertility treatment or previous loss.
There is room here for both gratitude and fear.
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Matrescence & Motherhood Identity
For women navigating the identity shift into motherhood — adjusting to who they are becoming, balancing expat or cultural layers, and learning to release perfectionism as their confidence quietly reshapes.
Matrescence is not a single moment. It's an unfolding.
CLIENT EXPERIENCE
"I cannot fully express how amazing Toni was with mine and my partner's birth journey. We we given amazing support pre, during and post-birth and as I can only speak from my male experience, Toni was so integral to our successful birth story and I will forever be grateful to her for her care and attention for my partner and for her helping me to be the best partner that I could for my missus."
— Liam - Expat dad in the Netherlands
A FINAL WORD
Fertility and motherhood can feel invisible to the outside world — even while they are reshaping you completely.
You may look functional. Capable. “Fine.” — while inside, things feel less certain.
This work is about steadiness. Clarity.
And creating space for who you are becoming —
without needing to have it all figured out.
When you’re ready, we begin where you are.