Fertility & Motherhood Coaching
Trying to conceive, undergoing IVF, carrying a pregnancy after loss, or adjusting to life as a mother can quietly change everything about how you see yourself and the world.
Grounded support for the uncertainty of fertility — and the becoming of motherhood.
There can be waiting.
Hyper-vigilance.
Hope mixed with fear.
And a sense that no one quite understands how much you are holding.
This coaching offers a steady place to land — emotionally, mentally, and practically — as you move through fertility, pregnancy, and the profound transition of matrescence.
You don’t need to be “stronger”.
You need space, understanding, and grounded guidance.
Care that honours your whole story — not just this moment
Support Through Fertility, Early Pregnancy & Matrescence
This coaching is for women and birthing people navigating the invisible, emotional weight of:
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Fertility treatments and long conception journeys
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Early pregnancy after infertility or loss
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High-risk or medically complex pregnancies
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The identity shift that comes with becoming a mother
My work sits at the intersection of emotional support, informed guidance, and deep respect for what this transition asks of you.
Our sessions are not about fixing you — they are about helping you feel steadier, clearer, and more like yourself again, even while everything is changing.
My approach weaves together:
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Compassionate, attuned conversation
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Gentle tools for emotional regulation and nervous-system support
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Practical guidance shaped by the Dutch medical system
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Space to explore identity, grief, hope, and becoming
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Support that honours both your vulnerability and your strength
This is support that walks with you — not ahead of you.
Doula Support Packages
Fertility Support Package
Investment: €795
For IVF, ICSI, IUI & early pregnancy after fertility treatment
For those navigating the emotional intensity of fertility treatment — the waiting, the hyper-vigilance, the decision fatigue — and for early pregnancy that feels more cautious than celebratory.
Includes:
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Introductory consultation
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6 × 1-hour online coaching sessions
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1 × preparation session for procedures or milestones
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Ongoing messaging support between sessions
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Emotional regulation and grounding tools
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Support shaped around your treatment path
This package supports you through clinical pathways, uncertain outcomes, and the fragile transition from treatment to pregnancy, with steadiness and clarity.
Payment plans available
Flexible payment options are available to support accessibility and ease. Please ask during your discovery call.
Motherhood & Matrescence Coaching Package
Investment: €795
For women adjusting to the psychological and relational changes that come with becoming a mother — especially when it feels heavier, lonelier, or more overwhelming than expected.
Includes:
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6 × 1-hour coaching sessions
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Exploration of identity, overwhelm, values, and confidence
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Nervous-system supportive practices
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Communication and boundary support
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Tailored reflection exercises
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Between-session messaging support
This support creates space to process identity shifts, rebuild confidence, navigate partnership changes, and reconnect with yourself in the midst of caring for everyone else.
Payment plans available
Flexible instalment options can be discussed to support you in committing with confidence.
Combined Fertility → Motherhood Pathway
Investment: €1395
Support from conception through early motherhood
For those who want continuity — from fertility treatment or long conception journeys, through early pregnancy, and into the unfolding transition of matrescence.
Includes:
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12 × 1-hour sessions over several months
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Emotional support during fertility treatment
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Early pregnancy and post-birth integration support
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Identity-focused matrescence coaching
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Personalised reflection and grounding practices
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WhatsApp check-ins for reassurance through transitions
This pathway offers sustained, relational support across changing phases, so you are not starting over each time the chapter shifts.
My pillars of Fertility & Matrescence Support
Emotional Regulation
We focus on calming the nervous system, softening anxiety, and helping you feel steadier — especially during waiting periods and results.
Clarity & Informed Decisions
Together we untangle options, prepare for appointments, and reduce decision fatigue — so choices feel grounded, not reactive.
Resilience in Uncertainty
We create emotional containment during outcomes you cannot control — supporting you through hope, disappointment, and everything in between.
Identity & Matrescence
We explore identity shifts, partnership changes, expat life, and the evolving version of you that is emerging.
Communication & Self-Trust
We strengthen your confidence to ask questions, set boundaries, and advocate with clarity.
Who this Support is for
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Fertility & IVF Journeys
For those navigating IVF, ICSI, or IUI — carrying the quiet weight of uncertainty, repeated cycles, complex decisions, and the emotional exhaustion that so often exists between appointments and results.
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Early Pregnancy After Infertility or Loss
For those in early pregnancy who are holding hope and fear at the same time — waiting for reassurance, struggling to trust their bodies, and moving gently after fertility treatment or previous loss.
There is room here for both gratitude and fear.
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Matrescence & Motherhood Identity
For women navigating the identity shift into motherhood — adjusting to who they are becoming, balancing expat or cultural layers, and learning to release perfectionism as their confidence quietly reshapes.
Matrescence is not a single moment — it is an unfolding.
CLIENT EXPERIENCE
"I cannot fully express how amazing Toni was with mine and my partner's birth journey. We we given amazing support pre, during and post-birth and as I can only speak from my male experience, Toni was so integral to our successful birth story and I will forever be grateful to her for her care and attention for my partner and for her helping me to be the best partner that I could for my missus."
— Liam - Expat dad in the Netherlands
A FINAL WORD
Fertility and motherhood can feel invisible to the outside world — even while they are reshaping you completely.
You may look functional.
Capable. “Fine.”
And yet inside, everything feels uncertain.
This work is about steadiness. Clarity.
And making space for the woman you are becoming — without forcing her to rush.
When you’re ready, we begin where you are.